On a whim, I thought I would try to access this web site tonight. I haven't been here in a long time as my computer would tell me it was infected. How wonderful to see that I was directed here with no problems. How very sad to find out that the founder had passed on. Ms.O, you have honored your friend with a wonderful new site with a new skin. Thank you for continuing. I missed reading the boards and forums so much...they were so comforting and helpful in my menopause journey. I will be coming back !