I am 50 now, and have been going through perimenopase for what seems like 10 or 12 years, starting with the premenstrual night sweats,??that was my first symptom.??I have 2 grown boys and a 16-year old son at home.??I work full-time and am married to a very supportive and patient man!??I have nothing to stress me, yet at times I feel anxiety is my biggest complaint of peri!??Looking forward to making new friends on this forum and gaining some insight to the mystery that is "perimenopause".